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What if you could have it all?

– A Soul Fulfilling Job You Absolutely Love
– Passionate Relationships
– Financial Freedom …
– Unlimited Joy & Abundance

The truth is – you can have it all. I am living proof.

Being a “self-development junkie” I was on a mission to figure out how I could have it all, without burning out and actually ENJOY it.

I was able to create a life I a truly Obsessed with. A life I would not trade with anyone on the planet!

I manifested my soulmate as a Divorced Mom. We have been together for over 8 years, married for 5 years, welcomed another child & bought our dream home. And he still gives me butterflies. We have the happiest relationship of anyone I know!

One of my manifestations included being published by Huff Post & Elephant Journal. Huff Post actually reached out to me to ask me to contribute!

I manifested our dream home in Los Angeles – while we were in escrow on another home! Our dream home was almost double the size and was less than the original home! And our avacado and fruit trees are amazing.

I dreamt of creating a family life which was vastly different than my experience growing up. I wanted my kids to be grossed out by how affectionate their parents were. As a kid, I would shut myself in my closet when my parents argued and would visualize my family life when I grew up … celebrate holidays together, music & laughter ringing through our home. And now, this is my reality.

I left the dream job at Toyota HQ, after 16 years to start a business and lifestyle coaching business to help others create a life they are Obsessed with.

I am able to make money, doing what I love – while being able to pick up my kids from school. I am able to give back by collaborating with non-profit organizations to provide tools for our at risk youth to create confidence and a powerful vision.

And, most importantly – I am able to show my girls that you can have it all.

I have created this life for myself & helped other women do the same in my 1 on 1 transformational business & lifestyle coaching.

But – I knew I wanted to do more. I wanted to be able to impact more women in an affordable way. I had so many women who wanted to work with, but was not able to afford my signature pricing.

So, I went on a mission to create a course to help women break through their blocks, step into their power & take powerful action to create a life they are Obsessed with.

Now, I am sharing my signature 4 step manifesting process with you.

Get free access now to my masterclass on my 4 Step Process to Manifest a Life I am Obsessed with.

The masterclass has already received raving reviews!

This was a great Masterclass! You did a great job & everything looked great! I am excited to take advantage of your payment plan and early bird pricing. My Biggest Takeaway from the Masterclass… I like how the modules are broken down. It is so smart to work on your blocks first! I am still processing all of the high value content I received in this Masterclass. THANK YOU!”
Shanna Ramirez
Get the masterclass here. You can use my process immediately to create transformation in your life.
You deserve it have it all. We all do!

Sending You Love, Lights & Oodles of Positive, High Vibes!

– Indrani Phillips

You have an amazing consultation with your potential client.

You can feel them leaning in and wanting to work with you. It is perfection.

And then they hear your price. You feel the energy change. They say they have to think about it.

5 Reasons Why You Are Attracting Clients Who Can't Afford You

The next time you hear from them if at all, they tell you they cannot afford it and thank you for the session.

If you are hearing this repeatedly from your ideal clients it can get really frustrating. I totally get it. I was there.

Here are 5 reasons why you are attracting clients who can’t afford you.

1. Not Clearly Understanding the Value & Results They will Get.

This is a big one. When it comes to money, people will invest when they are clear. Your job is to have them super clear on what they will be getting from working with you.

Manifesting Maven Tip: Focus on the benefits your dream clients desire. I have a kick ass process which includes getting into the highest vibes & leveraging scripts which guides my clients through a powerful process. It takes the pressure off and I can focus on what I do best.

2. Their Gut Feeling.

This one is all about our lack of confidence & self worth. This is HUGE. If you are not 333% confident in your prices, your potential client can FEEL it. While they may not know why they are resistant, we tend to go with our gut feeling. And that gut feeling is based from the energies we get. So, if you are not confident in your pricing, how can they be?

Manifesting Maven Tip: Confidence & Self Worth is essential in creating a successful biz & life. Invest the time & resources to uncover any beliefs or stories which can hold you back.

3. Your Money Story.

My money story was bad. I was constantly focused on the lack. I would be stressed to pay the bills. I avoided money like the plague. I hated checking the mail & I would let it pile up. It was really bad. When I finally fought through my fear and started to understand my money story, I realized why I was in the financial state or lack of finances. It was really freakin’ scary to look at, but it was totally worth it. It gave me the power to change my money story & inspired me to clean up all of my negative energy around money. #GameChanger

Manifesting Maven Tip: Taking the time to dive in and work/clean up your money story is freakin’ scary. I worked with a coach & invested in different programs to work on this. I spend A LOT of money doing this work. The good news is, now I created a simple, powerful process for myself & my clients to work through their money story.

4. Your Energetic Space.

Everything around us is energy. This includes your space. When we have clutter in our space, it can limit our ability to receive. If this sounds too “airy fairy” for you, I totally get it. It took a lot of research to buy into it. And now I am a believer.

Manifesting Maven Tip: Remember the energy around us creates more of the same energy. So if you are in a cluttered space full of crap, what do you think you will get more of? Go through your workspace & home and get rid/fix the broken stuff, dead plants & things which do not serve you.

5. You Are Not Investing in Yourself.

Ugh – this one is a catch 22. I would say – when I get my first client, I will invest in myself. And I meant it. The problem was, I needed to invest in myself to get my first client.

Manifesting Maven Tip: Figure out what exactly is holding you back. Then take steps on working on it. Investing in yourself can be hard, but when I did, it was a game changer. The free stuff is great, but real talk – how are clients going to invest in you, if you don’t invest in yourself?

The easy thing to do is NOTHING.

I knew that deep inside, but I chose to do nothing for a long time. I would attend a boatload of free webinars, read books – the whole deal. And although I learned a ton, but it did not help my bank account. When I finally took action and invested in myself, that was when everything changed.When I invested in my first coach, I had to open up a new credit card to afford the payments.

When we do the work to uncover what is holding us back, then we can create the space for our dream, kismet clients to find us.

You can book a clarity call here for a complimentary assessment to uncover what is holding you back.

 If you want to create a life & biz you are OBSESSED with, now is the time. Take action. A first step to show you are committed to changing your current situation.

The universe has your back ALWAYS.

We just need to do our part. That is when we can STOP attracting the clients that can’t afford you and START attracting clients who can!

Sending you Love, Light & Oodles of Positive Vibes!

– Indrani

My Daily Manifesting Ritual

I am a Manifesting Maven!

Check out the latest thing I’ve manifested in the video below & my daily manifesting ritual.

Here is my daily 3 step process manifest like a Motha lovin’ Maven!

1. Mindset Practice – when you are clear with your desires & aligned to the vibes, then create a powerful mindset practice.

2. Inspired Action – Take daily action towards your desires. Use the information you receive from your mindset practice & just do it!
3. Trust & Release – Now it’s time to trust the process. No need to worry about WHEN or HOW it will happen. (That just prolongs the process.)

Check out the video where I break it down.

That’s it.

Create a solid practice which is customized to you.

Do the work. It’s worth it. 💯

P.S. It’s supposed to be scary! #RiskItToGetTheBiscuit

About Last Night’s Screw Up

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So, last night I had an ultimate screw up. I was in the kitchen cooking with the kids, after taking them to the grocery store & playing referee between my 10 & 3 year old. I heard the door open & glanced at the time. It was too soon. I knew something was amiss.

My man does not usually get home prior to 6. As he walked into the kitchen, he looked at me and said “Kidney stone”. I rolled my eyes and said “Really?”

Bad move. I finished making dinner & my man offered to do the dishes and clean up. I resisted a little & then I let him. As I went into my room for a few minutes, I was gazing at one of my gorgeous crystals. And it hit me. “I fucked up.”

I went upstairs and immediately apologized to Michael. He then said he noticed my eye rolling earlier. I felt like an ass. I then apologized again & told him how I felt. I was ready for someone to take care of me for a minute. Between my husband’s heart surgery 6 months ago, my daughter waking up in the middle of the night, my man being sick, taking time off my business to spend with the family, I was exhausted. So the last thing I wanted to hear was “kidney stones”.

That’s when I caught myself. I was making it all about “ME”. How his pain was hurting ME. I was playing the victim.

So, I made it about HIM. For the rest of the night, I took care of the girls, got them ready for bed and was as my husband exclaimed, “The Best Housewife Ever”. < – – – That title made me cringe, but I know what he meant.

Here’s the 3 simple, yet powerful tips you can use when you inevitably screw up.

I have to admit, this awareness & mindset is a HUGE step for me from the person I was just a few years ago. I am a Scorpio & we are known to hold grudges & stubbornness is our game. I would stay mad for days (I also picked up this habit as a kid, watching my parents). I would always find a reason & justify my point, even when, deep down inside, I knew I was wrong.

That life was exhausting. I would forget why I was mad, BUT still continue to be mad … How insane is that?

The silver lining?? Now I realize all bumps along the way was part of my journey.

It is my story to tell. I did the work & now I get to enjoy my remarkable life. I have a whole new level of happiness that Prosaic cannot touch. Believe me. I tried it. 

It enables me to help my clients in a powerful way to claim their happiness. Their Effortless Life.

Here’s to your Effortless Life!

– Sending You Love, Light & Oodles of Positive Vibes!

Indrani

Are you ready to design a life you are Obsessed with?

I’ve got your back. Set up a clarity call with me. We can get clear on where you are, where you want to be & I’ll give you some recommendations how to get there. 

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What to Do When You Fuck Up

We are human. We all make blunders from time to time. Whether you are Jack the Ripper or the Dali Lama, there will be times when things don’t go our way. It’s inevitable.

The difference is HOW WE HANDLE IT.

Jack the Ripper could very well take it out on slaying more innocent victims.

The Dali Lama could reflect, shift his perspective and find the silver lining.

Here is what I do when I inevitably fuck up. This post was actually inspired by last night.

About Last Night’s Screw Up.

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1. OWN IT.

This is key. When we take responsibility for our own actions, we take the POWER back. Most of the time, we want to place blame to take the heat off ourselves. That’s childish & just makes it worse.

When you fuck up, own it. Apologize. And I don’t mean the “fake” apology… like the “I’m sorry YOU did not understand what I was trying to say” That apologize is just re-directing blame. And that is not Owning It. 

2. HANDLE IT.

Now you have owned it, the next step is to fix it. What are 2-3 things you can do to make it better?

WHAT CAN YOU LEARN FROM IT?

If it happened at work, what can you do to ensure it does not happen again to yourself and your staff?

If it was at home & you yelled at one of your family members – what made you see red? Can you instill a trigger to ensure the next time you communicate it in a more effective way?

Triggers are a great way to create awareness & get you into your optimal state. Want to create your own custom triggers? Book a session with me now & I will hook you up. 

3. RELEASE IT.

This part is so darn important. When we hold on to our “fuck ups”, it eats us up inside. When we hold on to the guilt & frustration when we mess up, it eats us up on the inside. We start vibrating at lower levels – which is not good for us.

When it is not released, it will manifest into something ugly. Trust me. I’ve been there. Some may self-medicate through food, drugs, shopping, gossiping … while others could resort to abuse to themselves or others. It can also manifest in physical ailments.

So, make sure you create a process to release the emotions in a constructive way.

The next time you fuck up, use these 3 simple, yet powerful tips. Use the opportunity to grow & learn from it.

Because it is all about the journey, not the destination!

Here is to your Effortless Life!

– Sending you Love, Light & Oodles of Positive Vibes!

Indrani

 

Are you ready to design a life you are OBSESSED with?

YOU deserve it. And I’ve got your back. 

Take Action and join the 7 Day Challenge to An Effortless Life. In this challenge you will learn simple strategies to:

  –  Be Grateful for Negative Emotions! (it sounds crazy, but trust me – it’s rad!)

–  Transform Anxiety & Overwhelm Into Inspired Action

–  Create Abundance in Your Life Now

Click below to get started on the 7 Day Challenge! You will love it.

“If THIS is free – I can’t wait to work with you! This was a game changer!” – Tracy Taylor

“I love this challenge! I watched the past week of vids in one session this morning – love your friendly warm energy, and your enthusiasm :). I wanted to let you know today’s video on Abundance and being open to RECEIVING definitely hit home for me. I will be changing my mindset on that – celebrate my achievements, receive pleasure from them (and others), and let the abundance flow! Have an awesome day and thanks for all you do and share :).” – Jenn Lang

“I’m so excited for the gift you’re sharing through The Effortless Life!  Thank you! I found you in a seemingly random way.  I noticed a comment you made on an Instagram post about manifesting a spot on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday, and I thought… well this is a person I’d be interested in finding out about!  I hope to see you on the show one day soon. So, I quickly followed you on FB and found your website. Now I’m here to thank you for offering your wisdom to the world, in particular this free class.  It looks like it aligns with the practices I’ve been working on over the last year or so, and I think it will compliment my current “efforts” very well!  What you’re offering seems like just the boost I need at just the right time …

My biggest insight from Day 1 is that even though emotions can feel difficult or “bad” in the moment, there’s a way to process them to our benefit and let them teach us something valuable…they can open our hearts, and expand our reality if we give them the space and take the steps to open up to them. When we pay attention to and feel difficult emotions completely, and even thank them…then we are allowing them do their job and work in support of us.” – Gianna Filice 

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3 Must Haves to Kill It in 2016

As 2015 is winding down, it’s time to reflect on the year and get ready for 2016. The natural thing to so is to set “Resolutions”. While that is great, Statistics Brain research revealed only 8% of people that actually make resolutions are successful in achieving them! Crazy right? BUT – don’t worry, I’ve got you covered. Here are 3 Must Haves to Kill it in 2016.

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1. Find the Silver Lining in Everything:

 

Really. This sounds so cliche, but totally true. When we search for something positive in a glum situation, we are setting ourselves for success . According to research at Kentucky University, “People who are optimistic are more committed to their goals, are more successful in achieving their goals, are more satisfied with their lives, and have better mental and physical health when compared to more pessimistic people.” The proof is in the pudding! So when “Life Happens” – embrace it. Believe Life Happens for you. Learn from it. Know it is part of your growth.

2. Set Soul Based Goals:

 

Do your goals inspire you? If it does not inspire you, you most probably will not achieve it. Your goal should light you up! It’s all about focusing on how we feel, rather than what we want. We are not chasing things, we are chasing our feelings. Ensure your goals include how you want to feel. Our emotions are everything. So, leverage it!

3. Invest in Yourself:

 

This is my personal mantra. As a transformational coach, I am always investing in my growth. This is essential to our development & ultimate happiness. As I continue to develop, sharpen & harness my skills, I can have more impact on my clients, family & friends. And as my skills grow, more people want to work with me. It is a win/win. Whether it is investing in a coach, courses, or books, make the conscious choice to always invest in your growth.

“Our Intention Creates Our Reality” – Wayne Dyer

You are now hooked up. You have the 3 tools you need to kill it in 2016. When you are intentional in creating a life you are obsessed with, you are setting yourself up for happiness. And happiness leads to success!

Now it’s time for you to shine. In the comments below, share with us:

1. What is a recent negative experience you have recently encountered? What can you learn from it?

2. What is 1 Soul Based Goal you have in 2016?

3. How will you invest in yourself this year?

If you are ready to get clear on where you are, where you want to be, I’ve got your back. Set up a clarity call now.

Sending you Love, Light & Oodles of Positive Vibes!

– Indrani